The healing relationship is coming to terms with the truth of human connection, the safety & peace the coexists with a profound lucid and astounded confusion, which is perfectly balanced by, at times, an intensity of now-ness that is truly boundless. When I come to my senses with another and I realize it is truly we that are evolving, and the I and thou dissolves into a blinding and deep presence, whether it be in play or in pain, it is these moments when I realize that we truly are...it is in these boundless moments that consciousness is reflected, the mirror is placed before the mirror and all light is shattered into the eternal.
The healing relationship is coming to terms with letting go, coming to terms with all my fears, all my concerns of inadequacy and fear of the unknowing, and learning to trust. Trusting that the one that sits before me shares the same imaginative, creative & boundless spirit that exists within me and that this spirit is truly and uniquely moved to evolve & grow. All the pain and all the denied experiences , these are just spirit in its endless contraction and expansion, it is always those parts of us that are calling to be seen and recognized as part of the whole....the trust that the dissolving I within and the ethereal and undefinable I without can create an experience and connection, a unity that helps this opening, this evolution, a transmutation of pain, of seeming separation into increasing and expanding wholeness, completeness & oneness, this is the healer of all healers, the sun that shines behind the sun....the moon that reflects its light and the guides the tides of our shared consciousness.
In the healing relationship my fears become realized, the pervasive blocks to the acknowledgement of the true self the One life are made present, the fear that the I is inadequate, that the I is unable to make the change, the I is not able to make the space for transformation and value or even valueless is made a glaring example of.....but all this is illusion and falsehood, all this is the lies of the mass mind, because it is not me that acts in my connection to others to heal, it is not me that facilitates the transformation , it is the spirit that is the only worker, it is Aleph, the cultural power, the fool, which the mind rejects, but which is yet the one life, that expands, that changes, that transforms, all its forms, I do not act, because I is only an aspect of the one life..it is the one life that is death and rebirth, it is the one life that is I and thou , it is the one life that moves within the perceived other, it is this that heals and no other, because their is no other only one...
The healing relationship is a name for connection to the one within the other, for knowing the Self, yourself, my self, the self as the only power that is, the place-less, boundless, timeless spirit, the fool his breath, my breath the expansion & contraction of the mind of god.